我和耶和華見證人學習聖經已經3年了，現在感覺自己的思想被禁錮了，非常痛苦怎麼辦？

02-04

jw的思想就像一張網，控制著裡面每一個人的思想，把人變成一個又一個沒有獨立思想的人，這邏輯又看似乎非常正確沒有漏洞，然而他們卻是斷章取義的解經，得到的都是錯誤的認知，在研讀聖經的時候，他們把人引向他們想讓人知道的部分，卻看不到聖經里最重要的，最核心的部分。是基督的抵擋者，假的福音。讓人崇拜的可是他們自己，以為在榮耀神，最後是榮耀他們自己。

然而，當人的良心還是會有所反應，當人意識到裡面的不對，第一反應是覺得是他們有問題，還是自己有問題？真相是他們有問題，虛偽的世界裡把人都變成虛偽的人，而不是真正從內心出發，這一套邏輯體系把人的心裡都變的扭曲了。

真理讓人自由，基督的律法已經釋放了律法的軛，他們讓人回到律法之下去敬奉神，這是本末倒置的路了。

我一直想倡導的觀點是，jw的觀點全然錯這是無可置疑的，但是我們必須回到真理中，回到基督里，去抓住正確的，不要在錯誤里一直徘徊，否則對自己全然無益，我們沒有必要為這虛偽的東西耗費自己的半點精力，因為我連唾棄jw組織都不想了，不值得我花半點精神去怨恨這個組織。

所以最重要的是，我們是否在真理里，在基督里，在基督的根基里。只有在光里，才會照亮黑暗，才會照亮更多的人。

純正的信仰不會禁錮人的思想。喜歡自己的工作就去努力工作，該禮拜、該敬拜上帝就敬拜上帝，這兩個東西並不衝突。要注意的事情是，上帝第一，工作第二。不要因為工作拋棄信仰就好了。原則要實實在在弄清楚了，才有可能去遵守和實行吧。這個世界上的書都能看，只是我們看過後要知道哪些符合上帝的要求哪些不符合就好了。實在不知道可以請教別人。上帝沒有說遊戲不能玩你們別玩遊戲，也從來沒有說哪個書不符合他的觀點就不能看。你的朋友是用自己的一套來為上帝代言了。能幹啥不能幹啥上帝不是在聖經裡面都說明白了嗎

認清自己認清自己咱們情況差不多歡迎私聊我

我怎麼了？問的好！請參考一下這個問題的回答：李靖：洗腦的定義是什麼?

第一，搬出去

第二，走出去看看世界

第三，兼職，就去做服務員接觸各種人，各種事

第四，讓自己充實起來

你就是太閑了

看了很痛心。不過三年的時間並不算長，走出來的那一刻會許會痛，不過回過頭來再看，未嘗不是一段珍貴的經驗教訓。

我也有差不多7個月的時間和耶見定期見面，和他們一起學習。但那時候我也參加別的教會活動，所以本能地對所有教會都有一點批判、一點警惕。最後和耶見不歡而散，但真是認清了他們本來的面目。

隨便列幾條：

1）不拒絕謊言

2）拒絕自我思考

3）通過控制信徒的社交圈來控制信徒的自由

4）組織內金字塔結構層級分明，信徒之間有監督機制

5）沒有愛心，沒有真心

這些都是個人體會，僅作參考。

我最後是怎麼走出來的呢？就是在其它教會漸漸學習了更多的東西，然後和他們質疑了一次。黑暗見不得光明，我以為他們會解釋、會回擊，誰知道他們逃也似的跑掉了！真的是感覺他們莫名其妙被我的問題嚇跑了！而且跑得一點不瀟洒，還滿口那麼多謊言做搪塞。7個月，就算是普通人還會有點友情吧？但他們真的就那麼灰溜溜地跑掉了啊，真是讓人大跌眼鏡。也許是不想再在我身上投入更多的時間和精力了吧，我相信他們內部會有相應的規章流程，寫明了對於我這樣的客戶應該採取怎樣的應對方式。

有些機構自稱真理代言人，對他們要保持警惕。我現在更覺得現在自己所在的教會特別難能可貴。當時教會的朋友們是知道我和耶見的人保持著聯繫的，但並沒有阻止我，而是像一個家長一樣在我身邊守護著我。看著一個孩子自己試錯，自己回頭，然後張開雙臂迎接我回來，就像浪子回頭的故事一樣。

下面帖一下我當初分享給我們教會的朋友們的郵件內容吧，裡面有更詳細的信息。

Hi all,

I really want to share you, my home church friends, with what happened between me and Jehovahs Witnesses people these days. The passage is a little long. So I am very grateful for your patience if you have time to finish the following words.

You probably have known that they came to our apartment every week, and it has lasted for the past seven months. Every time they came to teach their theories, I usually stayed silent passively, though I didnt feel comfortable about their teaching methods.

Things began to change from our trip to Atlanta. We visited the Chinese Christian couple in Atlanta with the help of whom I got to know God better and baptized. I told them about my inner confuse about Jehovahs Witnesses, and they told me that I should expose my real thoughts to them instead of hiding my rejection. After I came back from Atlanta, I had a talk with Carole about what I got from the trip and asked for her opinions. She also encouraged me to speak honestly to them. Then I did so this Wednesday when they visited me again.

Obviously they had prepared some topic for me as usual. But I didnt give them a chance to start their topic, instead, I asked them about the way they organize and how they learn when they meet together. To my surprise, they never use the bible when they meet in whatever kind of meetings -- they are only allowed to read bible individually (of course the bible is in their version). Then I said honestly to them that I dont like their materials, and I only like to read the bible chapter by chapter with them.

One of them tried to augur for their way. She said that Paul also started a topic himself and used the sentences in the bible before to support his opinions. Then I said, "but Paul had seen Jesus by himself." The womans face turned quickly and said, "do you think what he saw was the real Jesus instead of some visions?" I got shocked by her reply and asked, "what do you think of Jesuss resurrection?" I was really confused at that moment, because I dont know that is also a main difference between Christians and Jehovahs witnesses. She replied, "I cannot tell you what I think. I know you, you will tell others that *** (her name) told me so." I got shocked again. But I said, "I will never tell others. Your answers will only stay in my heart." To my surprise again, she then changed her answer, saying "I forgot what the bible says about this question, because I am old and I dont have a good memory." Oh my god, she could memorized so many chapters in the bible but forgot resurrection! Just then, I realized that she was telling lies. I said, "I can feel a kind of conflicts in your heart between what you have read in the bible and what your organization told you, so you are not ready to tell me about this topic." My words made her very angry. Her pitch turned very high: "Conflicts? No way! There cannot be conflicts between me and organization." I comforted her, "I didnt mean conflicts between you and your organization, but between the ideas." She changed the topic,"after you come back from China, you want to continue the meet or not?" I gave her a very conform answer, "Yes! But only using the bible in stead of your materials." She replied, "OK." Then we discussed what chapter should we begin first.

After they left, I told my husband about what had just happened. He asked me, "do you think they will continue to meet you? I think they will probably stop it." I said that I have the same feelings that they wont make it to continue seeing me, because their organization doest want this to happen, and they must have some policies to stop their members from contacting strong Christians like me. That night, I prayed for them. I really want to help them know the real God and the real truth.

Our worries came true this morning. They knocked our door unexpectedly. The woman asked me, "have you been baptized?" I said Yes. She said,"Then you are a religious person." Then she explained that according to the bible, their duty is to spread the good news. Now that I am already received the good news, there is no need to continue their preaching any more. Lies again! they knew I was baptized long ago, so it cannot be the real reason. I said, "Wont you contact me any more? Do you want to know the truth of the bible instead of what they told you?" She said, "I already know the truth." and was about to leave. I wanted to say more to them. But she said, "your know what? we have to go, because your baby is wanting you upstairs." They turned back and left quickly. I once thought they were my friends, I even defended for them. But now they exposed their natures and ran away.

Thanks God, I have learnt a lot from all the things that happened. I saw Satans lies and his fear. I also got a comprehensive understanding about the nature of a cult through our talks and the searches I made after. The women and her fellows are the biggest victims of the organization. They are not bad people, but they are trained to do Satans jobs. They often have the following features:

1. They can hardly have their own logical thinking abilities. They are well-trained about how to response to certain kind of questions. But those answers are not from their own thoughts.

2. The organization is very well designed to expand and collect money. If they think you are easy to recruit, they will continue their schedules step by step. But if you turn to be a strong-minded person, they wont waste time on you. They will shun quickly. They mentioned several times that they do not urge anyone to donate money, and "free teaching" "free materials" are also their slogans. However, keeping mentioning them only means they dont want you to forget the donation thing. I learnt from website that the donation boxes are very hard to ignore when you enter their Kingdom Hall. The money will goes to a mysterious group -- they are the highest, they write the materials, but their names the bottom members dont know.

3. If you become a member of them, they will stretch out their evil hands towards your children. All the children, regardless of how old, must sit besides their parents in their meetings, listening to the same things as their parents do. They are not allowed to play separately. When they turn to year 18, they have to make choice whether become a member or not. Its not so easy to choose leave. Because they also have instructions that if a member of family choose to leave their organization, the other family members are not allowed to maintain contacts with himher, including email! (known from their inner publication,The Watchtower, January 2013) Thats why the people visiting our apartment all have a Jehovahs witnesses mother (including the woman I mentioned before, who is probably around 60).

Finally, I am so thankful to God, because he led me to your guys. You have true love and worship the true God. You did not stop me immediately after you got to know that I had contacts with Jehovahs witnesses people. Instead, you let me to follow my holy spirit and see what is Gods arrangement. Because of this, I am able to have further understandings about their members life, and learnt a very deep lesson from Satans lies.

I love you guys! And please pray for them. They are utilized but they dont know.

耶和華的 「見證人」？？？哈哈哈，他們這個異端早就被曝光了，網路一搜就能看到一大堆害人不淺的歪曲真理和褻瀆的謬誤。。。朋友，建議你多讀聖經，幾乎所有的異端都是歪曲、違背聖經——神的道理的，只要用邏輯參照聖經上神所教導我們的去思考事情，就會知道什麼是對的什麼是錯的，什麼是真正的愛。別再被異端蒙蔽了。對了，不知道你看的聖經是不是世界公用的正版，千萬別用異端歪曲的的謊言假話！別怕！每個人的所作所為，神都看在眼裡，任何人最終都逃不過有神公義的審判。

人手所定的都要廢去，因為一生的果效，是由心發出。

願神祝福你，你一定能變得更好的！

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