嗨陌生人,你孤單一人時怎麼辦?


自己陪伴自己,自己使自己開心,自己理解自己,自己安慰自己,自己欣賞自己,自己開導自己,自己鼓勵自己。


什麼樣的孤獨算是孤獨,說說我現在的感受,當你從一個學校的小領導崗位下來的時候,你感覺你會有朋友,可笑的是自己感覺,突然間發現社會還是社會,現實還是現實,想著沒有別的可以改變。內心的那種落差感,感覺好搞笑,有難受。或許這就是生活吧!


我孤單的時候挺多的,畢業一個人來到了廣州,一個人找工作、一個人租房、一個人吃飯,之前有人列出的十大孤獨行為我好像都經歷過,比如一個人去看電影(而且經常)、一個人去逛街,除了一個人吃火鍋,一個人去KTV,因為我不太喜歡吃火鍋、也不喜歡唱歌。寫著寫著,真看著挺孤獨的,但說實話,我很享受一個人的生活,因為自由、因為想做什麼就做什麼,很多事自己決定就好。覺得孤單的時候,我會給自己做好吃的,享受做飯的過程,也喜歡吃自己做的菜,我覺得這麼多年,我最感謝自己的就是能燒得一手好菜,喜歡吃的菜學一學就可以做的還不錯,溫暖胃的同時,也是對當時內心那個孤獨小孩的慰藉。未來不知道還要孤身多久,但我們要有奮鬥方向並下定決心為之努力,將生活調成靜音模式,悄無聲息地改變。


沒人願意孤單,孤單就因為找不人聊聊而已,你願意孤單就去找人聊聊天,你要是不主動,就證明你還不孤單


就是簡單的孤單?

形單影隻的孤單?

舉杯邀明月,對飲成三人的孤單?

黃泉碧落曲高和寡的孤單?

大多是空虛迷茫冷的「單」吧,沒什麼新愁,只為迷茫的未來充滿擔憂,沒有依靠吧!靠不了自己更靠不到家人

想好自己是哪一種?如果吃飯養活家人沒問題,那麼孤單也無所謂,怎麼都能覓得知音,否則你如果還有空悲春傷秋,那麼是該有多不求上進?

完畢,請補充問題再討論


很享受一個人的時光,做好吃的,布置房間,去學跳舞


孤獨時間長了,就覺得這沒有什麼啊


會習慣孤獨


寫作業

做練習

題多了就不孤單了


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